People aren’t resources.
That sounds obvious until the deadlines hit and everyone turns into a box on a project plan. The job still has to get done, but the people doing it matter.
I’ve been a manager long enough to have gotten a lot of things right, and enough things spectacularly wrong to know where the useful lessons usually come from. Now I want to pass those lessons along so the next manager doesn’t have to spend decades figuring them out.
There are shelves full of books that can explain leadership theory better than I can. That’s not what I’m trying to do. I’m interested in what happens Tuesday afternoon when one of your best people is pissed off, your boss wants an answer, your calendar is stacked solid, and you’re sitting there thinking, “What the hell am I supposed to do now?”
That sounds obvious until the deadlines hit and everyone turns into a box on a project plan. The job still has to get done, but the people doing it matter.
A tailored suit fits better for a reason. Different people need different things from you, and good leadership adjusts without playing favorites.
I like the research. I like the theory. But I care most about turning it into something you can actually remember and use when real life walks into your office.
If we were sitting across the table over lunch, I wouldn’t hand you a framework diagram and start speaking consultant. I’d tell you what I’ve seen work, what I’ve seen blow up, probably tell you a story, and give you something simple enough to remember when you need it later.
There is one leadership lesson I believe is so fundamental that I want every manager to know it, whether they ever buy a book from me or not. So I’m giving it away. The whole lesson. Free.
I’m writing the leadership book I wish somebody had handed me when I first became a manager. Not another encyclopedia of management theory. A field guide full of stories, mistakes, metaphors, and practical ideas you can actually remember when somebody walks into your office with a problem.
Book One starts with the person in the mirror. Before you can lead everybody else, you have to get your own compass pointed in the right direction. That means your mindset, your mood, your ego, your mistakes, and the kind of leader you are choosing to become.
You do not have to become somebody else’s idea of a great leader. You have to figure out who you are, pay attention to what works, learn from what doesn’t, and keep getting better at leading the humans in front of you.
Pull up a chair. Let’s talk leadership. →